Photo of Vic taken on 6/9/08
Recent pic of Barbie
Not happily ever after
In happier times
Younger brother-older sister relationship The Chinese entertainment circle has recently been abuzz with the news of former love-birds, Vic Chou and Barbie Hsu. Apparently, both had enough star clout to be invited to attend a fashion show in Hong Kong but only the man turned up. The lady gave the excuse of a prior engagement for her no-show. Besides this event, I read that there were attempts to get the two ex-lovers together. Maybe, the people reasoned that if they were to act together again then sparks would fly and then both would return to their love nest. Or is their motive to create more fodder for gossip?
From the two articles I referred to in the websites below, I feel that the boy is the one who was dumped and the lady does not want to have anything to do with her former toy boy. What happened? Did he do anything to her to make her react in such a way? Could he have been unfaithful? Could it be the age difference causing the rift? Did she grow tired of him? Is it that their characters do not complement each other? Is it that the lady wants someone who is older, more matured and wealthier? These are some of the reasons why relationships fail. In the case of Vic and Barbie, only they know the real reason for the break-up.
One thing I observed is that recent photographs of the lady show that she appears to have become more beautiful whereas the guy looks very thin, drawn and haggard. Well, I think it is time for them to move on and for the rest of the world to leave them alone to sort our their lives.
In terms of Feng Shui, WHAT DOES ONE DO WHEN LOVE FAILS? There are articles written on how to win back a loved one using Feng Shui. Well, the methods might work provided that there is still love and the rift is caused by some misunderstanding but if there is no more feelings or that love has soured then all the activators, all the crystals and gems would not be of much use.
I know some people would run to the mediums and bomohs and try to do all sorts of things to win back their lost loves. But how effective are all these practitioners of 'magic'? The spells that they cast might last for a while but what happens after that? Could it be sustained? Probably not.
What I am trying to harp at here is that when love is over, it is over and there is no amount of whatever that could bring it back. It is actually up to the individuals to pull themselves together and get on with their lives - maybe start looking for new people to love.
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