Tuesday, 5 February 2019




I learnt this ritual from Lilian Too and have been carrying it out for more than 10 years.
Mandarin oranges, with their round shape and glowing hue reminiscent of gold, symbolize money.  Furthermore mandarins in Chinese are called Kum which sounds like gold. On the first day of Chinese New Year, some Chinese families and businesses roll mandarin oranges and coins over the threshold of their front door, to ensure that prosperity will flow into the building all year long.
And every year, my 3 furry sons will check out the 'gold' their mama has rolled in.

Monday, 28 January 2019


Me with Feng Shui Master Jason Eng at his Feng Shui Spectacular for 2019.
As usual the talk was very informative and interesting.
After his talk we are ready to face the Year of the Boar.
Please visit the Ipoh WOFS FB page for information on his talk later this week.



According to Jason, the year has a good balance of elements in the Bazi chart. All the 5 elements are present. This indicates that we can expect a generally good year ahead.
The year of the Boar is dominated by the Fire element.  There are 3 in the chart.  This is good as it means wealth luck. Wear red and keep your home well lit to generate more wealth luck.
Lup Chun falls on 4th February 2019 one day before the new year. This means that the new year has no lup chun which indicates slow economic growth. One can use more wood energy to improve growth.

Friday, 26 October 2018

Sunday, 15 July 2018


I read that eating mangosteens can help lower blood pressure. 


Me posing with the idols of the Taoist deities; the Jade Emperor and Wang Mu Liang Liang which are located at tye 7th tier of the Pagoda at the Tua Pek Kung Temple in Pasir Panjang.  I try and make it a point to go to the temple pray at least once a month.

Friday, 15 June 2018


"The Feng Shui of Windows"

By Kathryn Weber

Windows are a natural part of the exterior of a home or office building. In a sense, they’re the eyes of the building. Their openings let in light, views and without them, life would dark, dull and depressing. Yet, having not enough windows is just as bad as having too many. Because of their energy, windows can affect our home’s feng shui – and ultimately – our lives.

Like all things in feng shui, balance is important. The same is true with windows. Too few and it’s dark and we feel hopeless, too many or too large, and we feel scattered, frenetic and exhausted. The key is to balance enough light and views with privacy and exposure.

The type, kind and quantity of windows, like doors, affect the type of chi that enters the house.

When the windows are too numerous, too few or too large, the energy of the house can be weak. Likewise, you may have plenty of windows, but their treatment influences the way they affect the chi of the home. This can include the type of coverings you have, blinds and curtains, and if they’re dirty, broken or overgrown.

Here are some important tips about windows and feng shui.

Avoid having beds under a window. Beds should never be placed under a window unless there is absolutely no other place to put the bed. In that case, a heavy drape should be hung and closed behind the bed at night.

Don’t arrange furniture with the back to a window. In a living room, if there’s a large picture window, avoid placing the sofa or chairs with their back to the window. This creates a feeling of vulnerability.

Avoid window and door alignment. This often occurs in bedrooms, offices and living rooms. Block the alignment because this causes chi to run in a straight line. If this is the front door and it’s aligned with a window at the rear of the house, money will run out quickly. Place a screen, tall plant to block or add a window covering here.

Trim plants regularly. Don’t allow plants to overgrow windows. This directly affects the sector it relates to. For example, if you have an overgrown shrub in front of a window in the southeast wealth sector, you won’t be able to “see” your financial accounts realistically.

Avoid vertical blinds. These blinds are dangerous and send out harsh poison arrows with their large cutting edges. If you have a vertical blind anywhere replace them as soon as possible with a curtain or other type of window covering.

Beautiful views. Many windows offer wonderful views of trees, pretty scenes or nice landscaping. This is especially auspicious. Be sure to look out your windows to see where you can create those kinds of views in your garden or yard. Likewise, if you have a beautiful view, consider adding a mirror opposite that window to double the view!

Keep windows clean. Windows represent how we see our world. They also can create health problems depending on the sector. A broken window in the NE could be a problem with the hands or problems with decision making. Keep your windows clean and in good repair to keep your health and well-being safeguarded. Looking for a way to clean windows fast? Tips on window speed cleaning.

Balance views and light with privacy. Windows today have become too large and can make residents feel like they’re living in a fishbowl. This can create chi that is weak. It can also create problems with too much exposure. While it’s nice to have natural light and pretty views, we also need privacy. Make sure you don’t feel over-exposed because this can be dangerous from unsavory types to poison arrows.

Balance lighting. Everyone wants light, bright windows today. But when a house is too bright it can create tensions. Anger will flare, nerves will be shot and the family will suffer from too much sunlight. Balance this by adding window coverings that can manage the amount of light coming in. There are a variety of window options to preserve a view and light while taking away glare.

Source: www.redlotusletter.com

"Feng Shui Artwork -- How Images in Your Home Influence Your Prosperity, Love and Happiness"

"Feng Shui Artwork -- How Images in Your Home Influence Your Prosperity, Love and Happiness"

By Kathryn Weber

As a feng shui consultant, there have been many times when I’ve seen artwork that brings positive results to my clients’ lives. There are also times when I see artwork that negatively influences their happiness, their health, and in some cases, their life.

Even the placement of artwork has implications on what happens in your life and how you view yourself, if money is a problem or if your health suffers.

Why? Because what you see is often what you get in life.

When teaching my feng shui consultant training course, I often repeat this statement: energy flows where the eye goes.

If that energy is positive from an image, picture or painting, the flow is positive. If it is negative, the energy goes that way, too.

The accounts below are a few of some of my consulting clients and how the images displayed in their homes affected their lives.

One of my favorite private coaching clients often talked about how her life was reflected by the images she had around her house. She was unhappy in her marriage but had never really noticed how many images of a single, melancholy woman looking off into the distance were placed around her home, much like the image above of a solitary woman.

Relationship isolation

She wondered if those images where impacting her marriage, making her feel alone, isolated and forlorn herself. So, she set about taking those images down and putting up images of a happy couple, pairs of objects and got rid of the single, isolated woman.

She – and her husband – immediately noticed a difference and have remained married and are happy together.


Another client suffered from despondency, lack of a love relationship, and weight gain. After looking at her entire home, I couldn’t see a reason for her problems with depression, but there was one last room to see – her bedroom. It was looking fine, too, until we turned around to go back downstairs to the main living area.

That’s when I saw on the wall opposite the bedroom stairs was a large blue painting of a single woman crying.

Imagine, every day this woman went out into the world, the last image she saw was of a solitary crying woman. I’d feel isolated and depressed, too.

There were other things that were going on her life as well, like an over-sized collection of porcelain animals, which I believe grew along with her weight. She put her collection away, took down that painting, and then began working in a craft she’d always wanted to learn. She lost weight and moved into a new house and began a brand-new life.

Your health

Sometimes images can directly impact your health. One client had an image of a young woman with her chest ripped open and her heart exploding that her daughter had painted. It looked as gruesome as it sounds.

The image was painted in white, grey, red and black, which are very negative color pairings in feng shui. The client wondered why they had financial problems (the image was hung at the front door where money and opportunity comes in) and why her relationship with her daughter was strained. It’s not hard to understand why, is it?

However, because the daughter had actually painted this picture, this client didn’t want to part with it.


This happens more than you’d imagine, and I think many times, people become attached to their problems or they can’t let go of things – even when those things may harm them.

As they say in the Buddhism, all suffering comes from attachment. This certainly illustrates that case.

Health problems and anxiety

Another client experienced severe health problems and had painted a picture of a man and woman. It was supposed to look romantic, I believe, and depict the couple that shared the bedroom. However, the woman was on her back and blue-colored with the man above her that almost appeared as if her were making a CPR effort.

Because of the health problems this woman experienced, the image of a woman on her back, and blue-colored (the color of death and lack of oxygen in the blood), I suggested she take down the picture.

She, too, was the artist and did not want to give up the painting and reluctantly agreed to move it out of the bedroom.

The marriage that ended

Another couple had images of their children covering the entire wall opposite their marital bed. Their love life was in the tank and they eventually divorced. Is it any surprise? A couple’s bedroom should only be inhabited by the couple in images and symbolism. Pictures of the children could go most anywhere else in the house, but should not be staring at a couple while in bed.

The out of balance family

Lastly, are two examples of families that were out of balance and where the children overtook the home and their role in the family.

One couple had only one child, who like the lovelorn example above, was the center of their life and all that they did. An over-sized image of this child hung over the fireplace in the family room. She was a petulant little girl, and the family did all they could placate her. A better image would have been a picture of the whole family or to replace her picture to another wall where she would have been less prominent. But there that picture stayed, and the couple eventually divorced.

Another couple had two boys in their late teens and twenties, a time when they should have been in college or working. Neither one had a job or did anything but smoke cigarettes and watch TV all day while their parents went to work.

The parents were unhappy over how they felt these young men didn’t have responsibility and seemed to lord over their parents and their home, demanding things of them and not willing to pursue a job or education.

Again, a very large, prominent portrait of the two young men was hung over the sofa in the living room, with their image depicting their over-sized role and domination in the household. Of course, not every large or prominently placed image means a house is out of balance, but when the house is out of balance and there is an image of a pet, person or persons that is over-sized, well, then, it’s time to take a second look.

This client removed the image, made other suggested changes around her house, and one son got a job and the other went into the military, and she and her husband divorced after many unhappy years together. However, she was very happy the way things transpired, even the divorce, and contacted me to tell me how happy she was to be moving on with her new life.

Look closely at your images and what they could convey about your life.

Violent, dark, sad or ill-colored images do not give your home the kind of energy that gives you health, vibrant living and love. Add images that are inspirational and aspirational. If you dream of owning a sailboat, add an image of a sailboat on water to set your sights on.

If you want to be part of a couple, select images of pairs or couples. If you’re a single looking for a female partner, make sure there are images of women around – the same is true if you’re looking for a male partner. Many single females looking for a man have no male energy or images in the house.

Learn from these clients of mine and how their lives were a reflection of what the symbols around their homes showed them and symbolized in their life.

Give your house a good long look, and make sure it portrays what you want in your life or what it is you want to attract or retain.

Even if a picture or painting is of something negative and you want to hold on to it because you painted it, someone you loved painted it or gave it to you, just try taking it down, putting it in a closet or storage. Then when you see the changes that occur in your life, you might then be willing to part with it.

Ssource:  www.redlotusletter.com

Tuesday, 17 April 2018


Today is my birthday or just 28 minutes left of the day.  I am indeed blessed to have friends, colleagues and students to celebrate with me.
I am sharing pictures of my day with you here.

Friday, 16 February 2018


Rolling in the Mandarin oranges or kum when the clock strikes 12, signifies rolling in gold into the home.  Kum sounds like gold.


Tuesday, 6 February 2018


"Feng Shui and The Energy Of Your Home — How Clutter Stunts Your Energy and Your Life"
By Kathryn Weber
One of the biggest problems associated with clutter is how it roots you in a home that leaves you little or no room for growth.

Of course, the growth I'm talking about is the growth in your life, your career, your relationships, and your wealth. We're not so different than the beautiful plants you buy at the local nursery that look wonderful but then need to be divided or repotted into a larger pot — everything grows.

Your life is a living, growing thing.
When you're overwhelmed by stuff, like a plant, you outgrow your pot and that's when you start to see your relationships suffer, your business opportunities dry up, your health and vitality sapped, and finances become tighter and more restrictive.

Worse than all the stuff and visual blight that clutter represents is the way it robs you and your home of vital, happy, and lively energy.

Decluttering helps to remove blockages from your life that stop the flow of energy to you and everything you enjoy.

How does clutter affect you and what benefit does decluttering offer?
Low vitality, lethargy
Improved energy and interest in life
Bad luck, accidents, misfortune
Happy surprises, good fortune
No opportunities or money
New opportunities, improving finances
Feeling stuck
Life flowing smoothly, active, energized
Melancholy, depression
Improved energy, zest for life
Pessimistic, negative outlook
Optimistic, forward thinking and positive
Anger, frustration
Happy mood, pleasant feelings

Life is energy

All life requires growth, evolution and movement. When we lack these elements in our life, the energy that makes up our lives becomes stunted. Imagine not having enough energy to power a light bulb: it grows dim and burns in a weakened state. When we have overstuffed homes – especially with outdated, unused and unloved items, our lives become weakened too.

But how do you know when it's clutter and when it's disorganization?
Clutter is when you have eight spatulas or a closet full of clothes you haven't worn in years. Disorganization is when you can't find what you're looking for. Simply organizing your home with shelving, baskets, boxes, and other organizers will often clean up the disarray. In fact, by using organizing items you can often make more room than if you didn't use them.

Look at your challenges to find the kind of organizers you need.

Is the big mess in the kitchen or the bathroom? Maybe the living room is out of control. You might not be able to find an important bill that needs to be paid because you don't have a place to put the bills when they come in. No matter what your need is, there are containers of every possible size and description that can help you organize your house where you need it.

Unlike a tornado, clutter doesn't just happen. It gets that way over time.

Sometimes clutter is so insidious that we don't even notice it until we're deluged by it. Hopefully, you've learned some things about clutter, like what it is, what to do about it, and how it's different than disorganization. But, just like any good habit, such as exercise, decluttering isn't something you do and then it's done: it's something you start and then keep doing.

Too often people are bitten by the declutter bug and make one big push to declutter. That's wonderful and having your clutter cleared in one fell swoop feels incredible and unburdens you. Most of the time, though, clutter is related to a vitamin deficiency. Either someone is frozen in fear and doesn't do anything about the clutter, usually because they're just overwhelmed, or they do it once or then forget about it for the next 25 years. The key to both is Vitamin C –"consistent C."

Schedule it

Having a regular routine for decluttering is the single best way to keep it from getting out of hand. Pick a daily time that's convenient such as every day at four o'clock. Then, spend fifteen or so minutes working at removing clutter (tossing mail, magazines, clearing out the refrigerator). Make it long enough you can accomplish something but not so long that you'll give up.

Declutter with other activities

Instead of just putting freshly-washed towels away toss out your old tired towels first. Or, while your child is getting ready for bed, take a moment to go through some drawers and remove outgrown or stained clothing. Decluttering as you do other things makes decluttering part of daily living — and that creates a routine.

Make it a habit to be aware

Don't unload groceries into the refrigerator that's messy or cluttered with jelly jars with only a teaspoon of jam in them. Instead, quickly go through the fridge and toss old items out and wipe down shelves before restocking, and do the same in the pantry – this is the quality of being present with clutter and your environment. Likewise, if you take a phone message and the pen you're using doesn't work, make it a habit to throw it away and not put it back in the holder (and I know you do this!).

Be present

Becoming present means that you are aware where you are. That sounds obvious, but if you'll start becoming more aware and present wherever you are, you'll notice that you stop forgetting things and misplacing items and you'll notice how your home and office stay cleaner and neater more easily.

You'll also notice that you get more accomplished, you'll scratch things off your mental and physical to-do lists, you'll become less patient with people who drain you and you'll get three very valuable qualities back into your life again. They are initiative, motivation and enthusiasm: the zest of living.

Yes, old, broken, crowded, and too-much stuff can do that to you — rob you of zest for living. Free yourself and become aware of what you have and what you really use or don't use. Getting rid of useless items will unburden your home, mind and spirit and will open up your life again!

Your goals for decluttering this week:

Become more aware and present wherever you are. If you're in the bathroom and you see a two-year old bottle of prescription medicine you don't need, why not throw it out?

Straighten and organize before adding anything. Take time to clean the refrigerator and/or pantry before adding groceries. It might take a little longer the first time, but if you do it for a few minutes before adding groceries, each time will get shorter and your fridge or pantry will be neat and tidy.

Worst first. Instead of handling a small clutter area, tackle the worst area first. Get the tough stuff out of the way and you'll feel instantly energized. Enlist help if you need it. Ask a friend to help you and keep you strong. Who knows? Once you start really pitching, you might find that you are so ENERGIZED that you don't WANT to stop!

Clear off counters and floors. To get energy moving in your home and life, clear up all items off the floor and off the tops of dressers and counters.

Source' www.redlotusletter.com

Friday, 2 February 2018


My tem members from Third Force Perak and I took part in a community service program on 31st January 2018 was a to help clean Pak Dollah's house. Pak Dollah who turns 70 this year has very poor vision. It is most probably due to cataract. But I found out that his health is deterioting. He fainted in a coffee shop a few days ago and was rushed to the hospital by ambulance. His relative who was present during the gotong-royong told me that the hospital authorities said that he might have heart problems. It seemed that he 'discharged' himself before the hospital could do further tests to confirm this.  I think he was worried about his wife at home.  She has mental problems and needs to be taken care of.
What I noticed was that he has become weaker. He slept for a few hours when the clearing and cleaning took place. He could barely walk and at times he was in a daze.


Monday, 29 January 2018


This is the little girl who was seriously injured when a durian tree fell on top of her house and did great damage to it.
A piece of something sharp pierced her liver. Her leg and rib cage were also badly injured. She stayed in hospital for more than 2 months and underwent a few operations. At one time she could barely walk.
Siti Zaharah bt Argussri was discharged from hospital a few weeks ago. She is still weak and needs medication. Zaharah has to wear a special waist band under doctor's advice. When she coughs there is still phlegm and it is also painful for her. Her mother says that Zaharah has to undergo 'plastic surgery' in a few months' time as the skin around her stomach has thinned. I think the procedure is skin grafting as she said they are taking skin from another part of her body to graft to her stomach. There are surgical scars on her abdomen, her right thigh, her chest and her upper back.
Zaharah who is studying at SK (C) Hua Lian has already gone back to school. She will be sitting for her UPSR this year. Her mum said that there are days that she is too weak to go to school.

Sunday, 28 January 2018


Below are the Stars of Afflictions and where they have flown to in 2018

5 Yellow Star flies to the North. 
-  Those affected include daughters and those born in the year of the Rat.
-  Ladies have better luck then men this year.
-  It brings kidney problems to those whose bedrooms are in the North sector
-  Remember to remove Earth and Fire energy from North located rooms
-  Use metal to contain the 5 Yellow in the North.  Use 6 metal pieces.
-  Affects the kidneys and urinary tract.
-  If kitchen is in the North, use electric cooker instead of real fire.  If that is not possible, then try
   placing a bowl of water near the stove when cooking.
-  A remedy for the Rat born would be to put 6 pieces of 50 sen coins in their pockets.
-  If possible, no lights here.  But if that is not possible, then try using white light.
-  No salt lamp in 5 yellow area.
-  No noise, no renovation, no knocking, no digging or cutting here.
-  Any renovation to the North must be done before Lup Chun day on 4th February 2018.
-  The gravity of the affliction for an individual depends on the number of north afflictions one has,
   eg.  the individual is a daughter, born in the rat year and has a bedroom in the North.

The Illness Star is in the West
-  Those affected by the illness star are the youngest daughters and those born in the year of the
-  Those with bedrooms in the West might be afflicted diseases connected to the lungs, big
    intestine and respiratory system.
-  One remedy is to carry a Wu Lou keychain.
-  Remove Earth and Fire Energy from this sector
-  It is advisable for senior citizens, pregnant women and babies to not to be in this sector.
   One remedy is to place 6 emperor coins near the babies,

Hostile Star 3 takes residence in the Northeast
-  Sons of the family and those born in the year of the Ox and Tiger are affected by this star.
-  Avoid using this Northeast to reduce problems with litigation, quarrels, misunderstanding and
   trouble with authorities.
-  do not use wind chimes in the Northeast.
-  Keep this part of the home quiet.  Do not have noise, turn off the radio or television.
-  Place a red cloth in this sector as a remedy.
-  Remove plants from the Northeast.  If there are trees or plants in this area, then tie a red ribbon
    around them.
-  Remove radio and television from this area if possible.  If not use a triangular red cloth to cover
   the television.

Violent Star 7 will be in the East
-  The Eldest sons and the Rabbit born will be affected.
-  Put up Feng Shui cures to prevent thefts and burglary.
-  Remove metal energy from the East.
-  The presence of metal in the East might increase the possibility of burglaries in the home.
-  Place water in the East to contain this violent star.

Friday, 26 January 2018


The Lunar New Year will be upon us soon.  There will be some households that will place charcoal as an auspicious item in their homes to usher in good fortune.  In the Hokkien dialect, charcoal is Tarn which share the same sound as Profit.

Wednesday, 24 January 2018


The drain outside my Ipoh house was clogged and I had some workers clear it.  It is a breeding ground for mosquitoes and  the blogged drain would prevent the water flow.

Drains that are clogged up can indicate that you are feeling overwhelmed in your life -- with tasks, bad news, and just an overall sense of anxiety or misfortune bubbling over. It can also indicate that you are feeling blocked -- especially in regard to health, finances or opportunities. Is there some problem facing you that is getting progressively worse, and you can't seem to find a solution? Clear out those drains -- along with using these Feng Shui tips for your front entrance -- and see if the chi doesn't improve in your space, paving the way to problem-solving opportunities.

On the other hand, a drain plug that doesn't keep the water in when you need it can have the same affect as a leaky faucet -- money and energy trickling down the drain. Invest in the money to fix this, so you can enjoy the spa-like experience of a warm bath if you want, and you'll also be taking another step toward symbolically creating less waste.

Reference: http://www.kenlauher.com/feng-shui-tips/bid/57897/How-To-Feng-Shui-Your-Faucets-and-Drains

Tuesday, 23 January 2018


This beautiful gold and red rice bowl set is a symbol of wealth, abundance and prosperity. It represents an unending supply of food. Displaying this auspicious set at home can improve career luck and flourish business. It is also the symbol of success.


The information below is taken from the talk given by Feng Shui Master Jason Eng who is a student of Grandmaster Lilian Too.

The Dog Year rings in at 5.30 a.m. on 4th February 2018.

  •  The chart indicates that the year ahead will be a stable and harmonious one.  There will be less conflicts and hostility.
  •  There is hidden wealth luck.  One must activate to unearth it.
  • There is an excess of Wood in the chart.  The metal element is missing. Feng Shui enthusiasts are advised to wear white, silver and gold. 
  • There is no Beginning of Spring or Lup Chun for the year.  This means that growth might be slow but still there are plenty of resources to be had.
  • There are no clashing pillars int he chart.  There are two pillars here that are referred to as "Producing".
  • The Yang Earth Pillar and Yang Earth Dog mean that this is a Double Earth Year.  This indicates that opportunities are aplenty for growth in many directions.  The double earth brings greater harmony and fewer conflicts.
  • Strong fire is the element of the year.  the year requires metal and earth energy.  One can carry crystal and metal protection amulets.
  • The Two Yang and two Yin Pillars in the chart bring a balance of yin and yang energy.
  • There is indication that the second half of the Dog year will be more favourable.
  • The Commanding Star, Emperor Star and Celestial Protector Star are present in the chart for 2018.
  • Present in the chart is also the External Flower of Romance.  This is not too good a star as there might be sex related transgressions and scandals.


21 January 2018 l 2.00 - 5.30 p.m.
Kinta Riverfront


I am pictured with Feng Shui master Jason Eng after his talk this afternoon. As always, Jason was his usual charming self; sharing with his devoted audience information and tips for the Year of the Dog. And he also regaled us with his Feng Shui stories.
Jason, thank you so much for a wonderful session.
For those of you who are interested to know the content of Jason's talk, I will be posting the information here this week.